Have you asked her (or him) yet? Do it already!

(Find all of M.C.’s ongoing Valentine’s Day advice here.)

So, okay, if you’ve been following my advice — you’ve got the reservation or at least a plan of where you hope to take your special someone on Vday.  And, you’ve ordered or picked up a unique little something-something or flowers, etc., to win the affection of your beloved.

Now, it’s time to make the ask … make sure you’re the one first in line to sweet talk your baby on the 14th.

The most romantic thing you could do is to invite the guy or gal who puts that hitch in your giddy-up to the Ringling Museum this coming Monday — the7th, and while basking in the oh-so-sensual artwork or relaxing in the serene (but still very sexy) courtyard … ask your one and only if she or he will be your one and only date for Vday.  Nobody can say no in that setting.

Failing that — or if you’re worried he or she will be getting so many invites you better ask sooner — make the ask NOW.  Today.  Don’t delay.

Remember — he who is not impatient … is not really in love.  (At least that’s what an Italian boyfriend once told me.)